Honestly, it has been awhile since I write a blog. Many thing obviously had been going on, but perhaps not as significant or trigering enough for me to capture it. Perhaps, it was just me not realizing the hobby that is beautiful and important. By expressing my thought, the process is significant and reflect many characters. Anyway, writing is certainly a way to reflect and relieve, the inner thought and the piece of mind. The beauty of our mind, how it thinks, and act. I know for sure that sometimes, I am not sure why my mind think or assume a certain way. Honestly, I have no idea why I thinks the way I thinks. Perhaps it is rooted in the childhood of how one’s experience shapes the inner thoughts, decisions and processes.
Anyway, today, something significant had happened. Well, a guy said that he thinks I am cute, which is certainly interesting. Honestly, it is certainly intriguing of why we choose to like what we like.
With S., I am not sure to which extent I like him and honestly, I don’t know if the relationship will last. I am not sure if I had find the right one, how am I suppose to know. One minutes, one second, with a blink of an eye? I have been with him for 3 months, well, long enough, however, also not long enough. I like being with him, I do, however, when he came over, I have to confess, I cannot sleep well, which reflects that I am not yet myself, somehow. I don’t know, someone had told me that you know you found the right person when you can fart around them and be your complete self. I am not sure if I can be such with him.
Sometimes, I wonder if the differences in culture, faith, and other factors contributed to my not being able to feel as connected with S. But, I do like him, but to which extent and how do I know for sure. Time? I don’t know if this will last. I am not certain, even though, I wanted to know, however, it is not in my vision, but of God’s. There are things I like about S. and there are also things I am unsure of.
He seems to like me though, however, I am not sure if his maturity and sense matches mine. Perhaps, it doesn’t have to be, I just have to like the other person a whole lot, which I am not sure, if I had ever like anyone a whole lot in the past. I know I like my sister, my mom, and dad, which is mostly normal.
Will I ever going to like someone so much that I can give them anything? Sometimes, I don’t know if I am simply selfish or what, or perhaps I just haven’t found the right person, and why am I doubting myself, my feelings?
I am not sure. Our thoughts are complicated, certainly mine.
One thing for sure is, who will I…. that’s certainly too early to think, perhaps because I am on my period and my hormones are disintegrated, which should all be blamed towards.
Anyway, I cooked today and it was fun. It is relaxing and certainly made me proud.
One thing for sure is that I must look and find my satisfaction in the Word of God and not of man. Since, I have a bf, sometimes, it led me astray in term of where I find my satisfaction. I do not want that to happened because man cannot full-filled me, but only my God cans. He is my fountain. It is important that I seek God above all things, because through Him, all things and everything will be provide.
Okay, so Pradip came into my thought. Now this person named Pradip, certainly interested me. He is an interning guy, especially the way he thinks, interprets, and concludes. I have never met anyone who thinks and analyzes somethings like Pradip. Now this guy is so nice that he sent scholarship information to me. How cool is Pradip. I appreciate him and he is on my mind. Now, this makes me think that I would choose to date or marry someone not because of look or fortune, but of who they are and the quality they possess.
S. is patience with me and simply allow me to do things, he does not criticized me.
This made me question of what do I look for in a guy, this experience taught me something I wouldn’t have known otherwise. It is hard to pinpoint what I look for in a guy, however, I know that I must thrust in the Lord more because if I were to relied on my own thing, I would gone astray close to insanity, but if I were to relied on the Word of God then it is excellency.
I think the reason why I have to see S. to be fulfilled is because he doesn’t satisfy me all throughout, which I am not sure why, but certainly makes sense biblically. However, whenever I am with my parents, I am very much so happy, content, and comfortable.
I am getting very sleepy. I haven’t wash my dishes or shower, and I have to wake up to do my work tomorrow. Goodnight, it has been great to be reminded to write a blog.